The 3C Process is the secret that makes The Secret work. The 3C simply means CHOOSE, CLAIM and CONNECT. By understanding ‘The 3C Process’, you will understand how creation really works in our three-dimensional world, you will understand what is going on in the background, the workings of the secret in the universe. How do you and the universe come together to make this happen?
Let’s look at the first phase, that is, CHOOSE. CHOOSE simply means the “WHAT”. It simply refers to what you really want: what do you really want?
The problem is not getting what we want; the problem is deciding what we want. Most of us don’t know what we want. Most of us have no idea what we want!
You need to be absolutely sure, absolutely clear. If you were to tell someone what you want in one sentence, they should understand it without asking you for clarification. If someone asked you for clarification; that means your description of what you want is unclear. If it is not clear, it is not communicated to the person. If it is not clear, it is exactly the same in your mind.
If you do not have clarity in your mind what it is that you want, then when the message is sent to the universe, the universe cannot understand, the universe cannot understand what it is that you want. The universe cannot understand exactly what you are asking. If it doesn’t have enough clarity, not enough detail, then it is vague. When you are lazy, there are too many options as to what it is you want.
Think of the universe as a mega store and this mega store has a great store where you have all the products, anything you want exists in this warehouse. Let’s say all you wanted is a pair of shoes and you fill out an order form and send it to the mega store.
When you completed the order form, please check the options. Shoes for men / women, show the size, the type of lacing you want, etc. The more details you can check in when you fill out the order form, the easier it will be for the merchant who receives it to find and send you what you are looking for. The shopkeeper can go to the exact place where the shoes are stored, collect them and send them to you.
If you had to mark everything except male or female, he wouldn’t know if you want male or female shoes.
If I marked everything correctly except the size, and he has 21 different sizes, I could not give him shoes in the correct size.
If you marked everything correctly except the color, and he has 17 colors, what color would he want?
If he marked all of these correctly, but forgot to write his address, he would not know where to send the shoes.
Let’s say you mark everything correctly including your address, but you forgot to say when you want them delivered, now he doesn’t know when you want them delivered. You may want them delivered on your birthday, but didn’t say when. So you get them at the wrong time.
Maybe you marked everything right, even your address is correct, even the date is correct. But you did not pay the postage, you still will not receive them.
So there is a legal process here. The more clarity you can give this merchant, the more likely they are to give you exactly what you want because whatever you want, they have it in their store. Everything you can dream of, he has in his store. But you have to ask the right thing.
So here in the first C, most people fail because they don’t know how to ask, they don’t know what to ask. They ask for the wrong thing.