I recently met with a friend who had suffered a shoulder injury. When I asked her how she got hurt, she laughed and explained, with a wink, what had happened on Freaky Friday.
His comment made me wonder how much each of us discusses our views and opinions about sex with our partners. How many of us share our sexual likes and dislikes, our sexual fantasies, if we are open to trying new ways of making love to ensure that our sex life is fun, exciting and fulfilling?
When it’s the weekend, Freaky Friday or not, we can take time to reflect on our sex lives and allow ourselves to experiment with each other’s ideas and suggestions.
– Pornography it’s a popular part of many people’s sex lives and is one of the top search criteria used on the web. Whether viewed solo or to spice up a couple’s sex life, some porn videos are “softer” than others. If you are interested in pornography, it is important to determine what each is prepared to see and enjoy from the beginning. Some couples like to film themselves and make their own sex videos, but be careful and consider where you can ultimately download them. We’ve all heard stories of exes posting revenge videos once the relationship has broken up!
– Role playing game it can be fun. Many of us have laughed at the “let’s play doctor and nurse” comments, but for some people, role-playing adds a significant edge to their intimacy. They may even have costume boxes where they keep outfits, shoes, makeup, and accessories relevant to their role-play characters. Scenario planning ahead of time can lead to fun moments when it’s the weekend and an odd Friday.
-Toys They often add spice to a couple’s sex life and come in all shapes and sizes, from dildos, vibrators, lubricants, and a whole range of other items that can be inserted, played with, and used in a variety of ways. Today there are shops on the streets where items can be looked at and bought or buying online is a more private way of shopping.
– Fancy It can be an exciting way to pass the time when it’s the weekend or a Freaky Friday, posing as strangers who happen to meet in a public place, such as a bar, bus station, or hotel lobby, and then leave. they seduce each other. The masquerade can appear in this story as a femme fatale or a macho playing the role of her. These fantasies often succeed in helping participants overcome any shame or inhibitions and can become a new liberating phase in lovemaking.
– Third parties It can be seen as an adventurous addition when you have more time on the weekend, but keep in mind that when an additional person is brought on board, things may not always work out as initially expected. Emotions can run high, the third party can get along better with one person than the other, and jealousy can become a problem. Things may not turn out as well as you hoped. Also the decisions about how far to take things sexually, how long to stay, how to make them go away can sometimes get a bit awkward.
-BDSM, bondage and discipline, dominance and submission, sadism and masochism can be part of your time experiencing on Freaky Friday. This can include tying up a partner, using restraints, handcuffs, discipline, spanking, dressing in leather or harsher attire, and having a dominant and a submissive, where discipline and some fetish behavior are enacted. Sometimes the roles can be alternated or it may be that each one prefers their specific role of dominant or submissive. It is important to be clear to what extent each person is prepared to receive and inflict discipline and pain. Having a keyword or sentence is important so that you can stop the process if you feel uncomfortable or if things go too far. Trust is an important part of BDSM.
At the end of the day, you both choose how you want to spend your weekend and Freaky Friday, it’s up to you to say sex please! Being intimate, trying new things, being confident enough to share your desires and maybe explore new positions, new ways of making love can be an important way for your relationship to evolve, for you to stay close and continue to be attracted and connected to each other. Yes. Yes please, sex please, it’s the weekend, it’s Freaky Friday!
