Did you just break up? Are you thinking of getting back together with your ex? Before making sudden decisions or sudden moves, make sure you have thought it through. You have to look at yourself and your feelings. You must really love your ex and be really determined to get back together with him.
Think about your relationship before the separation if it is really worth saving. Did you both fight and insult each other constantly? Was there any physical abuse that happened? If so, then it might not be a good idea to get back together with your ex. Arguments are part of any relationship and as long as they aren’t constant, there isn’t an avalanche of yelling and verbal abuse, or physical abuse, your relationship is definitely worth saving. Now let’s move on to the techniques to get your ex back.
Harassing and shaking your ex is not a good idea. If you try to perpetually get in touch with your ex; whether it’s by phone, email, text, or stalking them, you’re going to do more harm than good. They will find this a sign of despair. This could push them further away than closer to you.
Don’t argue, beg, or plead with your ex about their past relationship. It’s easy once you and your mind are completely alone. Your mind certifies all the ways of “bad” that you could have caused. Even when your ex broke up with you, he may have given you reasons. Now, you are most likely beating yourself up over it. You most likely wish you had never done those things. The past is the past. This is the present.
Get it into your brain that the relationship is currently over. You can’t go back in time, although you probably wish you could. Focus on what is happening now. The only thing worse than obsessively contacting your ex is begging or pleading with them. Make promises about how you will change, etc. This won’t help in the slightest to get you and your ex back together.
If you back off, give them some time, and live your life, you’ll be doing yourself a huge favor in more ways than one. It is very likely that you will become more desirable to your ex, since you allow him to think about you and miss you. You will also help yourself to experience a happier and more fulfilling life.
