All the guys act nonchalantly and are great when their girlfriends finally decide to introduce them to their friends. The brutal truth is that boys are nervous and furious as heck. It’s one of the most stressful times for guys with girlfriends (but of course, nothing better than meeting parents!).
– Smile and be friendly. Introduce yourself … I know you’re scared to death, but stay still enough to extend a hand when you introduce yourself. Yes, it is not cheesy to do that. Don’t wait for your girlfriend to make the introductions. Be confident and calm. Your girlfriend will be impressed. And so are your friends!
– Remember their names. Never mix them. It is offensive, really, and it is a great dislike to his friends. When trying to remember names, repeat a name in your head three to five times while smiling at the person. It works.
– Join the action. Join their conversation. I know it’s awkward, that’s natural, but when your girlfriend sees you trying to be a part of her inner circle, it will make her totally trust your efforts to be the best boyfriend. However, don’t pile up the whole conversation. Charming them with a few neat jokes is good, but rambling about them all night is overwhelming.
– Watch and learn. Listen to their topics. You can keep track of her activities, such as one of her friends is interested in photography and your best friend is also an avid fan. In addition, this is a great opportunity to meet them and adapt to their tastes and interests.
Now comes the tricky part. We know you want to impress them, but be careful if you’re trying too hard, it may lead to flirting! And you know it’s a great way to ruin a relationship. So take a deep breath, look your best, and make it seem like meeting your girlfriend’s friends is as natural as breathing.
