Men are men and the largely unwritten typical laws have their take on how a man should be like a man, maybe macho, confident, suave, etc. So if you’re in a relationship and wondering how to make him feel like a man, here are some things you can try.
Observe and study it carefully.
The most important thing to do before undertaking the task you are about to do is to watch him closely when he is with you, in a group, or at a social activity. Take note of the things that happen that you feel lower his confidence, it can be a comment about him, a joke towards him; basically anything you feel gets him down.
Now get to work on your readings.
Now that you’ve done that, do something that will help boost your self-esteem. And you don’t have to do it right away. If someone has said something that has affected his confidence, write it down mentally and, at the appropriate time, say something that makes him feel good about the same thing that brought him down. It will also matter more because it comes from you.
A little help, even if you don’t need it
This is something you could try to make him feel like a man if he asks you for help with something he needs to do. And I’ll tell you what, it’ll be even better if you can think of something that requires physical strength or stamina. It’s sure to make you feel good about yourself.
Who holds the kidneys?
Ok, maybe you are the one who really controls your relationship, maybe with your touch or whatever. But still, make sure that you make your man feel that he is in control of the relationship. Every man loves his ego booster.
when in public
Now it is not a hidden fact that everyone loves if he is complimented in public or in a group of people, the same is true for your man. Shower him with some praise and say nice things about him in public and see what wonders he can do. He will definitely swell with pride and also appreciate you more.
vice versa is also true
Kind of obvious, right? Even if you have a confrontation or some kind of disagreement in public, never make the mistake of putting him down in public. Realize that men sometimes see this as a direct attack on their masculinity.
respect their point of view
Whenever you discuss something, be careful not to disagree with him, even if you do so right now. Listen carefully and respectfully, and then after a while give your opinion without sounding personal.