When your grief, healing hope takes a nosedive There are 7 golden answers.
Are there times when your hope fails you and your confidence plummets?
Golden Answer #1
HOPE CAN TAKE A TEMPORARY PAUSE
Where hope fails and healing grows is part of his grievance healing process. A brief pause, even for others, a temporary hibernation is a natural result of the experience of unwanted injury.
However, grief prepares you for a better hope, a new beginning towards healing.
“Sadness prepares you for joy. Violently sweep everything out of your house, so that a new joy can find room to enter. Shake the yellow leaves from the branch of your heart, so that fresh green leaves grow in their place. Pull out the rotten roots, so the new roots hidden underneath have room to grow.” ~Rumi
Fresh new roots of hope are essential elements in moving forward from a temporary hiatus in healing your grievance. Don’t let discouragement or a little detour in your happiness make your hope fail forever. Grieving prepares you for more joy as you begin to heal.
Golden Answer #2
YOUR DECISION ABOUT WHO YOU ARE IS VITAL
“Every decision you make, every decision, is not a decision about what to do.
It is a decision about who you are.
When you see this, when you understand it, everything changes.
You begin to see life in a new way.
All events, occurrences and situations become opportunities.
to do what you came here to do.”
~Neale Donald Walsch
As you understand who you are, everything changes about what to do. Finding the metal within you points your actions in a healing direction. Every grievance decision you make then turns your thoughts and efforts into opportunities.
Dig deep. Look inside your soul, you are made of more inspiration and strength than you thought.
Golden Answer #3
STOP WORRYING SO MUCH AND TAKE TIME TO THINK
When a complaint arises, massive concern can also occur. After worrying about what it is, it’s still there. Try to engage your mind in hard, solid thinking.
“Rarely do we find men who willingly engage in solid, hard thinking. There is an almost universal search for easy answers and half solutions. For some people, nothing hurts more than having to think.”
~Martin Luther King, Jr.
Excessive worry can figuratively lead you down a worthless rabbit hole. Worry is often joined by discouragement, fear, and discouragement.
Can you accept the self-challenge to take the time to do something hard, solid, undiluted, carefree? You will be amazed at the positive results of this personal effort. It may require more than one attempt to achieve significant results.
Golden Answer #4
HOW MUCH DO YOU WANT TO BE CURE OF YOUR COMPLAINT?
“Wanting something is not enough. You must be hungry for it. Your motivation must be absolutely compelling to overcome the obstacles that will invariably stand in your way.” ~ The Browns
As you face your obstacles, you must be absolute in your efforts. WANT is not a strong action word like DO. Doing helps you learn that many obstacles are only half as strong as you thought they were. However, your efforts must be absolute. The key to healing your grievance is to fully engage with your own commitment and inspiration.
Golden Answer #5
LEARN TO MASTER YOUR HAPPINESS
It is essential that you learn to create a direction for yourself that outlines a clear direction to follow. If your path is clear, you can develop ideas and tools that you can immediately use to master your own happiness.
“There is no reality except what is contained within us. That is why so many people live an unreal life. They take the images from outside as reality and never allow the world within them to assert itself.”
~Herman Hesse
Learning not to let pessimism, anxiety and resentment invade your mind is vital to obtaining the happiness and joy you seek.
“To raise new questions, new possibilities, to consider old problems from a new angle, creative imagination is required.”
~Albert Einstein
Always trying to find new ways to master your happiness while on your path of healing grievances is a golden answer. In this time of pain and loss, have you considered how you can learn to master your happiness? You want?
Golden Answer #6
HAVE YOU CONSIDERED ALL THE TOOLS AND IDEAS?
Often when a grievance comes, it is unexpected and certainly not wanted. Confusion and helplessness are common companions to grief, bereavement, and loss. It’s not uncommon in the early stages of a grievance to not consider, let alone use, effective ideas and tools that you can use right now to achieve a better life.”
Some tools you may not have considered but should: Courage, daring, perseverance and effort can have a positive magical tailspin to make your difficulties and obstacles lessen.
“Difficulties show men what they are. In case of any difficulty, remember that God has confronted you with a strong antagonist so that you can be a victor, and this cannot be without work.”
~ Epictetus
Grief pits you against a challenging antagonist that you can only conquer with an extreme, continuous canvas.
“Your success and happiness reside in you. Resolve to keep yourself happy, and your joy will form an invincible host against difficulties.”
~Helen Keller
Certainly, the tools and ideas mentioned above are not what one thinks they are medical in nature. But using them as you take them out of your grievance healing toolbox can form an invincible and unbeatable host against grievance difficulties. Give serious consideration to using these tools and ideas to deal with your grief, sadness, and loss. Words like determination, persistence, and courage are all strong action words. Adopt them, call them to take up arms in your name.
Golden Answer #7
WHAT IS YOUR WAY TO HAPPINESS?
“Life is NOT supposed to be fair.” He knows that there is no one way life is “supposed” to be. Demanding that life meet our expectations is a sure recipe for a miserable existence. Life is a game without rules. Life just happens to us regardless of our best intentions. Our only path to happiness lies in being open to receiving whatever life throws at us, with gratitude. Have no expectations of life. ~ Jonathan Lockwood Huie
Life is not always a sweet dish of your favorite ice cream. Very often life makes its own rules. Being open to receiving whatever life throws at you with gratitude can be your best path to happiness.
“Sharpen your pencil as you create the story of your life. Inquire today as you consider the many options in your point of view:
What is the highest and best use of your talents, skills, and abilities? When you answer that, take the opportunity to sharpen those qualities even more by applying your concentrated effort.”
~Mary Anne Radmacher
“Seize every opportunity, embrace every possibility of happiness.
“It is better to light a candle than curse the darkness”.
~ Chinese proverb often quoted by Eleanor Roosevelt
At all times, embrace all available positive social media, technology, the Internet, and all other essential and beneficial resource solutions. Overcoming despair, hurt, and loss should be your top priority. Stopping grief, beginning to heal pain, loss, sadness, and finding hope and joy is vital to experiencing lasting peace and happiness.