And here are some advantages of internet dating:
• Discover the other through writing, and taking time to “talk” about the essential things in life.
• Know your type of partner without going through 4 paths.
• You get to meet people who share your interests, values, and goals. You know they are looking for something specific.
• You exchange personal information before deciding on a physical meeting.
• With online dating you can meet people you might not otherwise have met.
• You’re not limited to those in your zip code to get to the same places you go.
• No hurry.
While the virtual meeting is a method that has been tried and tested, however, some disadvantages remain:
• A certain gap between the discourse of online photos and reality
• The number of online dating sites is increasing every year, and yet there are more and more people. The important thing may not be the number of available profiles but the quality and reliability of these profiles. The quality of the personalized services available is also a plus to break with loneliness. Making a meeting successful is not improvised, it is planned.
The Internet has become the latest hot spot to flirt and find the one of your heart. Hidden behind the screen, we find their suitors, we send them small soft words of introduction or the most daring ones. After all this is that virtual…at least at first.
Intense seduction:
Protected by the screen, it is easier to go from gossip, from jokes to intimate affective movements, as if a love relationship free of all deceitful appearance were emerging little by little. Unlike the “real” world, where the first form of seduction is based on appearance or physical attractiveness, and where there are many barriers (physical, shyness,…), relationships become fast, deep and sincere.
Especially since the authenticity of these ‘virtual’ relationships is based on the principle of common interests: when no one around us shares our experiences and our passion, we feel that others experience feelings similar to ours. It feels complementary. Selected and selected becomes our reflection. The appearance is narcissistic, but allows the establishment of an exchange of emotions.
Online seduction uses all the resources of language to create a curiosity, and sometimes a passionate hunger for the other…virtual. Our text messages are treated, fuller and deeper than normal words.
But conversely, because you can’t see the face of the man or woman you’re communicating with, you’re deprived of all these little tell-tale cues about the mood of the person in front of you: a frown, a I start to smile or shrug, or encourage, yet discourage engaging in a clearly closed manner. Misunderstandings can happen so quickly.
