If you’re going through a breakup, chances are you’re trying to decide the weather to get over it or trying to figure out how to get his love back. There are only two options and neither of them is very easy to do. You really need to consider the cause of the breakup before you make the wrong decision and make things worse. You might decide that breaking up isn’t such a bad idea.
If your decision is to try to win his love back, then the first step is to be very sincere when you apologize. You may have said you were sorry multiple times, but she might have thought you were just trying to stop the breakup and were insincere about the apology.
If you are the one who caused the breakup, then you should sincerely apologize. If the breakup has been going on for a while now, she may think the apology is sincere because you have nothing to gain from it. This is the best time to say you’re sorry and that you really do mean it (hopefully you do).
If it was your ex who caused the breakup, instead of trying to get an apology from her, try to forgive her. If cheating caused the breakup, you may not be able to get over it, but you can learn to forgive it. Truly forgiving someone is harder than just saying I forgive you, but you must learn to truly forgive them or the relationship will never work.
If you manage to get her love back and you really haven’t forgiven her. Later down the road, old wounds may open up and chances are a few hurtful things will be said and the breakup will start all over again. A good idea is perhaps to read some books on how to forgive someone. There is a lot of good literature out there that can help you on that subject. Learning to truly forgive can save you headaches in the future.
To get his love back, be yourself (the person he fell in love with, not the person he dumped). While it can be hard to hide the pain, do your best and focus on reminding her why she loved you in the first place.
Make sure you remember the important things. Part of learning how to win her love back means treating her like a queen. One of the best ways to do this is to remember important dates in her life, like anniversaries and birth dates, you get the picture. Send her cards and flowers to show her that you care about her in a positive way.
You need to find some casual way to communicate with her, like sending an email or something like that, maybe a text message. If you don’t have some kind of communication, you will never get your ex back.
I hope you found this helpful in getting your ex back.