Things that can increase confidence in my sugar baby:
1) She arrives on time for a date. That makes me feel that she values the potential of our mutually beneficial relationship.
2) If he’s late, he texts me. Show consideration and courtesy. You’ll be surprised how many skip this step!
3) She responds to emails and texts within a reasonable amount of time.
4) She initiates contact with me at some point: it shows that I’m being thought of, which is a nice thing!
5) It complies with the commitments it makes, that is, it does not continue to cancel dates.
6) She says thank you when I do something nice for her (this is very easy to do but you’d be surprised how many people forget the word ‘thank you’)
7) She does little things that show she appreciates me. It doesn’t even matter that they are cheap. One Just Bought Me A Slice Of My Favorite Key Lime Pie, Improvised: It’s The Idea That Counts
Things that make me doubt my sugar baby:
1) She is constantly texting or receiving random calls. I don’t mind checking from time to time, but if you have to check every single message, it just means we’re not right for each other.
2) She always hints at her needs outside of the agreed upon arrangement. I don’t mind helping in an emergency, but if you constantly ask me for things, it means you’re a gold digger. At least pretend you’re not. It’s just more elegant
3) She constantly talks about her boyfriend. I’m not the jealous type so I don’t mind hearing about it once in a while, but if you keep talking about him it seems useless.
4) She wants to avoid being seen in public with me. If you’re not comfortable with me (I’m really not that ugly, trust me!), then again, we’re not right for each other. Just come and say it, and I’ll appreciate your honesty.