A goal of every Christian marriage should be how to have better sex in a Christian marriage. Christians deserve an exciting and pleasurable sex life and must take steps to achieve incredible intimacy. Here are 5 ways to take action!
1. Create time for intimacy. This does not mean creating a fixed date and time each week for sex. Think big. Create a weekend getaway or even an overnight getaway. Simply going out to dinner and checking into a nice local hotel for the night can be a great way to create time for privacy. But it doesn’t always have to be a getaway, it can also just be a cozy evening at home. Whatever the case, make this a routine thing. Every month or two, set aside some extra special time to become more intimate with each other in a romantic setting.
2. New Positions. There are plenty of exciting and fun sex positions that are completely fine for Christian intimacy. Many Christians are under the impression that only a few positions are allowed. But that is not the case. Most positions are fine to do as long as they are safe and you both agree on them.
3. New intimacy techniques. Like positions, there are exciting and pleasurable sexual techniques available to Christians. Learning to please others should be a top priority when you want to improve your sex life. Find out what your partner likes, and then learn new ways to make it very pleasurable. There are excellent Christian sex and intimacy manuals written specifically for Christians that will provide a wealth of pleasurable techniques.
4. Oils and Lubricants. Many couples don’t realize that simply adding erotic oils and lubricants can make a world of difference in sex. They greatly increase pleasure, while being very accessible and easy to use.
5. Christian sexual book or guide. As already briefly mentioned, you can gain a great deal of insight by consulting a good Christian intimacy guide. You’ll learn specific techniques, what’s allowed and what’s not, as well as provide common questions about sex in a Christian marriage.