The worst scenario that can happen when you want to date a woman is when she says “you know, you’re a really nice guy… but let’s be friends, okay?” Doesn’t it suck? Of course they do, but for many guys they just don’t know how to overcome this problem. But I do so listen…
When you act like a nice, clingy, needy guy around women, then you’re getting nowhere.
She won’t see you as a potential boyfriend or lover, but as a friend. Because? Because you didn’t push the emotional buttons in her… the ones that make her feel that visceral emotion called sexual attraction towards you.
This is what happens when you act like a wimp or a nice guy to women: they tell you that you’re a nice person, but they’d rather be friends with you because you’re so nice and cute. I know, it doesn’t really make any sense if you’re new to this, but here’s what’s REALLY going on inside his head:
They don’t really want to be friends…they just want to get rid of you!
Now look, women say and mean very different things. “Let’s be friends” or “I don’t want to lose you as a friend” simply means, “You know, I really don’t see a relationship working” or, in many cases, “I’m just not into you.” sexually”.
So how do you make a woman attracted to you? How do you make a woman see you as a hot stud and a boyfriend instead of just another girlfriend?
Alright… first of all, when you want to get a woman’s phone number or take things to another level on a date… just stop acting like one of her friends would.
Seriously, if you don’t want to become his friend, STOP acting like one in the first place!
All her friends are nice to her, they compliment her a lot, treat her like a princess, and buy her drinks when she goes out. If you do the exact same thing, she will put you in the FRIENDS category like all the other guys.
Don’t become her personal slave who does everything for her and offers to help her all the time. Don’t spend hours listening to all her problems. You want to be the one she talks about for hours with all of her friends because she’s not sure how she can attract you.
But if you act like a friend, you will become his friend.
This is what I want you to do now: you must do the exact opposite of what his friends do. Stop being nice, stop giving her cowardly compliments, and don’t be so needy! You have to make her guess and keep her on her toes whether you like it or not.
Make him guess about you to make him curious. If you give her lots of compliments about how great she looks today right from the start, then all that mystery goes away because she already knows you like her.
And that does not create any attraction.
You need to push her emotional buttons to create attraction, and you do this by teasing her and busting her balls. You have to show him that you are a man and not a doormat.
So instead of doing something for her (I don’t know, like a lift for example) like all friends would, just be cheeky and say “okay… what do I get in return? No not THAT girl, you got to stop thinking about sex all the time… but an ice cream is a start”.
There you go!
THIS is how you push her buttons and make her attracted to you. Not for being nice and needy and clingy. If you want to be her lover or her boyfriend… make her feel sexually attracted to you by teasing or accusing her that she only thinks you are a sex object.
Use your imagination when teasing her, it works wonders when it comes to women and dating.
Keep it up!